21 Ways to Know that Your Partner has hit Bull's Eye
“ Could you get it ?”
Most women find themselves in a Catch 22 situation when their partner asks this question after the LOVE MAKING SESSION. Very few women are able to sense that their partner has hit the Bull’s Eye or not. On one hand If their answer is “ I don’t know”, they are perceived either as Dumb or Unsatisfied. One the other hand if they fake, they feel bad for themselves or live in an illusion giving a sense of dissatisfaction to their own selves Also the second way also, very soon their non-verbal reaction gives a signal of ambiguity to their partner.
It is really important for a woman to know if she got it or not. This helps her build confidence on her partner and also a sense of satisfaction at this very important human need.
The sensation varies from woman to woman. Nature has built a concept of multiple orgasms in women. Still some or combination of following ways gives a great idea of whether their partner could do it for them or not.
1. A sudden need to speed up the thrusting process
A sudden peak state can be sensed by the strong urge to speed up the thrusting. The woman asks or indicates the partner to do it more vigorously. The pleasure of the act reaches the peak.
2. Strong need to get touched at the special parts
The sensation is felt at the all the special parts. A need to be touched / rubbed by the partner can be sensed. The peak excitement runs through all the special parts
3. The sense of a peak tightness around the thigh and pelvic region
The muscles in the inner thighs and the pelvic region get tighter. Stiffness are felt all over the region. This is also an automatic process so as to facilitate vigorous thrusting
4. Feeling like holding the partner tight
This sign is felt in the missionary position of love making. Although another sign in the other positions is holding the bedside or pillow tighter. Again the psychological aspect of the need to hold is to enable intense thrusting
5. Feel of contractions in the vagina
This just happens when the thrusting goes on at full intensity with the partnership between the woman and her partner. It is the final and the most obvious sign that most women who are unaware, miss. On an average, women get 3 to 5 contractions in the vagina. Contractions happen with a frequency and are sudden tightness and relaxation. Something like waves. Some women also get a maximum of 10 to 12 contractions. This can be felt if both the partners are involved in the act and the woman partner is not passive. Those women who are not involved or face forced sex, are not able to sense these contractions. There are stages of the whole thing. If all the stages of urge, excitation, orgasm and resolution are not well considered by the partner, women go unsatisfied. So the question of sensing contractions doesn’t arise.
6. Conversion of pain due to thrusting ( if it exists ) in pleasure
Some women feel pain due to tightness or some performance anxiety or fears. Suddenly the pain (mostly psychological) just goes away. And a sense of pleasure is felt. This condition might happen in the early months of getting sexually active or getting active with a new partner. But in case the pain persists and is chronic, medical advice must be sought.
7. Sensation of wetting
This is also called Female ejaculation. After a feeling of peak urge to receive thrusting very little secretion is sensed by few women. It is normal if the secretion is not felt and visible.
8. Feeling like putting an end to thrusting
Another sign is a sudden decline in the interest. It is marked by sensation of peak need followed by diminished need for thrusting. Some women may need more thrusting or continue towards another cycle due to multiple orgasm.
9. Vibration in the whole body
The nervous system flows a sense of vibration outwards in the whole body. It starts from the upper spine towards the arms and then towards palm and so on from thighs towards toes. Again different women perceive these vibrations in partial forms or may be none.
10. Sudden Tightness in the facial muscles
Some women also find a tightness in the facial muscles. This is just similar to facial expression of disgust, but actually the woman feels a sense of pleasure.
11. Goose bumps
Goose bumps are a common fundamental which is related to the peak point. Few people are not able to sense the goose bumps at the time of love making. Normally at the time of arousal people find goose bumps all over their body. They are like raise in the hair all over the body. Similar goose bumps are experienced when one encounters cold weather or fear.
12. Release of energy
Very important sign of hitting the peak is a sudden oozing energy felt in the entire body.
The body system provides maximum blood flow at the pelvic region right at the beginning of arousal or love making, to facilitate the act. And at the completion or resolution stage ( which is the last stage ) the blood just gushes back in the veins in the whole body. So this release of blood is perceived as release of energy.
13. Relax stage
Since the act involves a lot of physical exertion, so the peak marks a sudden transition into a relaxed state.
14. Lightness in the whole body
Also the nervous system is at full utilization, since the act of love making involves highest nervous sensations. And suddenly the whole nervous systems gives a sensation of lightness in the whole body.
15. Feeling of togetherness in skin of the partner
At a psychological level when the two are working as one team, the climax marks the extra sensory perceptions. A feeling of togetherness or oneness with the skin of the partner is felt. Just before the climax the focus is on the pleasure area, and sudden shift in focus towards the feel of oneness of skin is a good sign.
16. Need of saying I Love you’s
One feels an urge to say I love you to the partner. Some people use other words that convey the acknowledgement. This urge to speak something is also a subtle sign.
17. Need to express warmth
Sudden shift from the act to expressing warmth like love filled kiss is also a sign. Important point is that this kiss or caress is not sexual but more of warmth.
18. Redness in the face
Some women also find a blush in the face as a sign of being able to get it. Few people call it the glow at the face.
19. Sensation of Breathlessness
Another sign is a focus of breathlessness. Since the woman is done she can feel the palpitations too. Again the idea is that the focus shifts from the act.
20. Subtle sense of satisfaction
This sign is more at the psychological level. The mind perceives an achievement / satisfaction of some sort similar to satisfaction after having a good meal.
. It is mentioned by age old schools of psychology that sex is one of the 3 basic needs of any human, other being hunger and thirst.
21. Sense of Bliss and belonging
This is the ultimate sense even deeper from the psychological level. A sense of spiritual bonding and belonging can be felt just at the point. True love making is aimed at reaching this stage of bliss. And this is what makes it pure love. Physical bonding and emotional bonding feed to each other.
Most women find themselves in a Catch 22 situation when their partner asks this question after the LOVE MAKING SESSION. Very few women are able to sense that their partner has hit the Bull’s Eye or not. On one hand If their answer is “ I don’t know”, they are perceived either as Dumb or Unsatisfied. One the other hand if they fake, they feel bad for themselves or live in an illusion giving a sense of dissatisfaction to their own selves Also the second way also, very soon their non-verbal reaction gives a signal of ambiguity to their partner.
It is really important for a woman to know if she got it or not. This helps her build confidence on her partner and also a sense of satisfaction at this very important human need.
The sensation varies from woman to woman. Nature has built a concept of multiple orgasms in women. Still some or combination of following ways gives a great idea of whether their partner could do it for them or not.
1. A sudden need to speed up the thrusting process
A sudden peak state can be sensed by the strong urge to speed up the thrusting. The woman asks or indicates the partner to do it more vigorously. The pleasure of the act reaches the peak.
2. Strong need to get touched at the special parts
The sensation is felt at the all the special parts. A need to be touched / rubbed by the partner can be sensed. The peak excitement runs through all the special parts
3. The sense of a peak tightness around the thigh and pelvic region
The muscles in the inner thighs and the pelvic region get tighter. Stiffness are felt all over the region. This is also an automatic process so as to facilitate vigorous thrusting
4. Feeling like holding the partner tight
This sign is felt in the missionary position of love making. Although another sign in the other positions is holding the bedside or pillow tighter. Again the psychological aspect of the need to hold is to enable intense thrusting
5. Feel of contractions in the vagina
This just happens when the thrusting goes on at full intensity with the partnership between the woman and her partner. It is the final and the most obvious sign that most women who are unaware, miss. On an average, women get 3 to 5 contractions in the vagina. Contractions happen with a frequency and are sudden tightness and relaxation. Something like waves. Some women also get a maximum of 10 to 12 contractions. This can be felt if both the partners are involved in the act and the woman partner is not passive. Those women who are not involved or face forced sex, are not able to sense these contractions. There are stages of the whole thing. If all the stages of urge, excitation, orgasm and resolution are not well considered by the partner, women go unsatisfied. So the question of sensing contractions doesn’t arise.
6. Conversion of pain due to thrusting ( if it exists ) in pleasure
Some women feel pain due to tightness or some performance anxiety or fears. Suddenly the pain (mostly psychological) just goes away. And a sense of pleasure is felt. This condition might happen in the early months of getting sexually active or getting active with a new partner. But in case the pain persists and is chronic, medical advice must be sought.
7. Sensation of wetting
This is also called Female ejaculation. After a feeling of peak urge to receive thrusting very little secretion is sensed by few women. It is normal if the secretion is not felt and visible.
8. Feeling like putting an end to thrusting
Another sign is a sudden decline in the interest. It is marked by sensation of peak need followed by diminished need for thrusting. Some women may need more thrusting or continue towards another cycle due to multiple orgasm.
9. Vibration in the whole body
The nervous system flows a sense of vibration outwards in the whole body. It starts from the upper spine towards the arms and then towards palm and so on from thighs towards toes. Again different women perceive these vibrations in partial forms or may be none.
10. Sudden Tightness in the facial muscles
Some women also find a tightness in the facial muscles. This is just similar to facial expression of disgust, but actually the woman feels a sense of pleasure.
11. Goose bumps
Goose bumps are a common fundamental which is related to the peak point. Few people are not able to sense the goose bumps at the time of love making. Normally at the time of arousal people find goose bumps all over their body. They are like raise in the hair all over the body. Similar goose bumps are experienced when one encounters cold weather or fear.
12. Release of energy
Very important sign of hitting the peak is a sudden oozing energy felt in the entire body.
The body system provides maximum blood flow at the pelvic region right at the beginning of arousal or love making, to facilitate the act. And at the completion or resolution stage ( which is the last stage ) the blood just gushes back in the veins in the whole body. So this release of blood is perceived as release of energy.
13. Relax stage
Since the act involves a lot of physical exertion, so the peak marks a sudden transition into a relaxed state.
14. Lightness in the whole body
Also the nervous system is at full utilization, since the act of love making involves highest nervous sensations. And suddenly the whole nervous systems gives a sensation of lightness in the whole body.
15. Feeling of togetherness in skin of the partner
At a psychological level when the two are working as one team, the climax marks the extra sensory perceptions. A feeling of togetherness or oneness with the skin of the partner is felt. Just before the climax the focus is on the pleasure area, and sudden shift in focus towards the feel of oneness of skin is a good sign.
16. Need of saying I Love you’s
One feels an urge to say I love you to the partner. Some people use other words that convey the acknowledgement. This urge to speak something is also a subtle sign.
17. Need to express warmth
Sudden shift from the act to expressing warmth like love filled kiss is also a sign. Important point is that this kiss or caress is not sexual but more of warmth.
18. Redness in the face
Some women also find a blush in the face as a sign of being able to get it. Few people call it the glow at the face.
19. Sensation of Breathlessness
Another sign is a focus of breathlessness. Since the woman is done she can feel the palpitations too. Again the idea is that the focus shifts from the act.
20. Subtle sense of satisfaction
This sign is more at the psychological level. The mind perceives an achievement / satisfaction of some sort similar to satisfaction after having a good meal.
. It is mentioned by age old schools of psychology that sex is one of the 3 basic needs of any human, other being hunger and thirst.
21. Sense of Bliss and belonging
This is the ultimate sense even deeper from the psychological level. A sense of spiritual bonding and belonging can be felt just at the point. True love making is aimed at reaching this stage of bliss. And this is what makes it pure love. Physical bonding and emotional bonding feed to each other.
